Dad is giving my inheritance to charity

I like this part.

Maybe it is now time to learn to let go: let go of the resentment, the aspiration for resolution and begin to embrace the coming end of life of your parents.

I think money has to do with it. I went through the same thing but never worried me. People said to me contest the will in court. My answer was it was Dad's wish and it will stay that way.

I have never regretted that decision.

I am j a believer that you respect any one's last will. You mourn for that person not for what you missed out on.

Don't you have to go by a person's last will? It certainly is a legal document that the family left behind can't just go by whatever copy they wish, right? Don't proper, legal procedures, such as going by a person's last will have to be followed?